heya hungry4life ! sorry to hear that you are down. i think everyone goes through this at some time or another. i doubt that you are the reason he doesn't want to hang out. he's probably actually not wanting to be in a relationship with ANYONE ... and even if he did, you don't want to deal with someone who just came out of a serious relationship.
i say, keep on asking them boys out and go have some fun!
p.s. don't feel bad about posting this here i like the whole drama bit, just go look at all the thread i make hehe.
take care, hun